I was watching television a week or so ago and I heard this, "The eyes see only what the mind is prepared to comprehend." Wow! As I think of this statement it can make a lot of sense in a lot of ways. For example: If you are in a relationship and know he is cheating BUT you are not prepared to confront him about it. You are afraid that he may lie or try to make you feel bad or admit it and leave you. Whatever the case, you are not prepared to deal with any of the outcomes that could happen if you bring it up. You may somehow think that ignoring it will make it disappear. It won't! But until you are able to face it, you will continue to be angry/hurt/mad/sad. We all have things that we may not be able to comprehend at any given time in our lives. So, as you go through life, ask yourself: "What am I not facing because of a fear of the outcome?" It may make us more aware of who we are, what we want and how we are going to achieve our goals and dreams in life. Be honest with yourself. It is the only way you will allow yourself to grow and move forward in life.
--Brenda McMillian is Vacation Travel Doctor with McMillian Travel. Let us assist you and/or your busy family in reconnecting through personalized, well-planned travel experiences. Call us at 704-994-8747 ext.1.
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